Hello everyone, how are you?
I'm an SO of a CD. To cut the long story short: we met when we were 8, at 18 he finally asked me out. A few months later, worried I'd reject him, he told me. I laughed because it was strange that he thought I'd be opposed to it - I love him, simple as. To be honest, it wasn't brought up again so I kind of forgot about it - what with starting uni.
Now we're in uni he has the private space to dress up and he himself put a limit to one a month in bed too (though we've been flexible) because I like skin on skin. He's recently made an anonymous account on another site to show pictures of him CDing which at first alarmed me but after I saw all the positive responses and a burst in his self esteem I don't feel too worried now.
So here it is, I feel my worries at times can make him feel uncomfortable in his own skin (or dress) and now he's out at a metal gig I feel I have the opportunity to ask you all how I could surprise him? If there's anything you would want or have wanted your partner to say or do that made you feel more at ease? Any suggestions because I've asked him but his answers are always 'whatever makes you happy', but I want to make him happy, selfishly so.
Thank you for reading!
Griff