I was contemplating whether to share this at all here but it means a lot to me so I decided to do it.
Just a little background: my wife is accepting of my hobby but I don't do it much (maybe once monthly) because, well, I guess I still have some issues.
Anyway, my wife and I had been bickering a lot over the past few weeks because of work/life stresses and in that time, I had not dressed at all even though I am free to after the baby goes to sleep.
Last Sunday was espececially stressful for reasons I won;t go into here. But, in the evening, we decided to watch some TV together. I told her I was going to get dressed and she said OK so I did (black skirt, black top, garter belt, thigh highs and 3 inch pumps; no makeup and no wig).
We sat on the sofa and while sipping from glasses of prosecco, we started to talk and talked for about a half hour about why we were not so cool with each other lately.
To make a long story short, we talked and then kissed and watched our movie. Then we went upstairs to the bedroom and had an intimate time that was marvelous. This has always been my fantasy.
The next day, she said she enjoyed our night and our talk and that she really likes the feminine side of me. She said I listen to her and am less defensive. She also said I should dress more often.
So, last night, I told her I will dress more and she said it is fine with her.
I just consider this a step forward. This afternoon, she told me we should go shopping for bras that fit me together soon. She thought my one and only bra was way too tight on me.
OK. So I have this off my chest. I am taking her to a concert and drink afterward this weekend because...well, because I am so lucky to have married her.
I guess I will now get back to my regularly scheduled work. But I just had to post this because I feel so good about it. Besides, there is no one else except my wife that I am out to.
I know this sounds like bragging but, really, I am just so happy. Forgive me.