Lets say she felt more dominant and wanted you to stay at home, raise the kids and wear the dress and heels in the relationship. Would that create stress in your relationship? And would you accept her as leader of household?
Lets say she felt more dominant and wanted you to stay at home, raise the kids and wear the dress and heels in the relationship. Would that create stress in your relationship? And would you accept her as leader of household?
i would go for it in a minute. Their would be no stress what so ever.
Life is too short not to be happy!
I'd do it in a heartbeat! I'd be very happy to play the traditional female role in a hetero relationship.
One caveat in that situation is the potential confusion of the kids. Assuming they are pre-school, probably not much of a problem. Once they enter school, however, it could be a potential mine field.
Second star to the right and straight on till morning
I don't think I would go for this. But then, neither of us is the girl, by your definition, in our relationship. We are both strong individuals who share the traditional roles pretty equally.
Miriam
that would be my dreams I be there in dress ND HEELS in a sec.. Of course I just have to worry about the grand kids
I have tried a submissive role to my wife and it just created more problems than it seemed to solve. I believe in a wife led relationship (Gynosupremecy) but unless the wife is a dominant and you are a submissive by nature, it just doesn't work. Those fantasy videos are just that, fantasy. If you and your wife are ever truly interested in it, I recommend the books:
1. Why Women Should Rule The World
2. The New Brides Guide to Training Her Husband
3. Real Women Don't Do Housework
and the best of all (as it is more of a real book)...
4. Around Her Finger.
PM me and I can get you discounted copies of any of those.
This was a fantasy years ago but anytime it came close to happening we realized that in our relationship it wasn't who was the male (Dom) female (sub). My wife always earned more than I did but most families need two incomes anyway
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It wouldn't be a dom/sub relationship here.
We'd be equals and living in more of a lesbian relationship which she would not be comfortable in.
As for me...I'd love the chance, but since it's just fantasy I can say that.
I don't wear women's clothes, I wear MY clothes !
Oh yeah, I've read pretty much all her stuff. I was into a lot of it a while ago, but have really transformed away from it.
I would be ok with it, but that doesn't mean I would do all of the work around the house and raising the kids. Sure I could maintain the house and probably enjoy some of the freedom involved in it, but I would expect help on the weekends and especially if kids were involved.
"It makes no difference whether the voices in their transformations have each other to depend on or not. Smooth them out on the whetstone of the universe (tian), use them to go by and let the stream find its own channels; this is the way to live out your years. Forget the years, forget duty, be shaken into motion by the limitless, and so find things their lodging-places in the limitless." ~Zhuangzi
"everyone here hates everyone here for doing the same thing that they do." - Less Than Jake
Oh yes! It's just a matter if i want to go there for the long term...
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That would not work at my house. My wife is already the dominate one in the relationship. We both work and share all household duties. Including inside and outside work. She does not like me as Katie; An reminds me she married a man. She understands my need, but she wants to be the girl, and call all the shots. My natural submissiveness lets her.
Not for me. My wife is and always will be the woman in the relationship regardless of whether or not she wanted me in a dress and heels all the time.
You don't have to have been born female to enjoy being a girl
Since I am retired and the kids are out of the home, and, I am doing most of the domestic chores anyway I would easily fill the role. That way I would not have to take of my Connected Woman white and black print knee length dress, white Comfort Choice slip, black bra and black panties, black heels and black thigh stockings, and wig before she comes home from work. I would love to get a nice pat on the bottom when she came home. It's not going to happen, but, I would love it.
Are you kidding? There are times when I am delighted to head out on the road so that I can get some peace and quiet, but my wife spends all day every day with the children. I wouldn't take that job if it doubled our income!
Since I work from home, I get to do plenty of housework and it's always felt pretty natural. My dad always helped around the house, when my mother would let him. Of course, he didn't do it dressed as I do. As for a full time switch, my wife would rather be the one to stay and keep house. She only works for the income and pretty much hates it. I think she likes me as chief furniture mover and spider killer and that's fine with me.
I have to say no to this one, first of all I make more money, second I like the type of work I do and, third I don't know if I could be a fill time girl ( its a nice idea though)
Kelly
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All of yall who are married already know that the SO is the Boss ,, Dressing up or not ,,,Dont fool your self ,, So just get your June Cleaver outfit on an PARTY !
Yull Find Out !!! lol,,,,
Beware, suggesting that housework is the female domain and is the feminine thing to do could get a bunch of angry GGs lining up to give you a swift boot.
:P
Since it's a fantasy question though, I'll say that I wouldn't mind at all since I don't want the stereotypical male role anyway.
It also avoids the whole "you're not the man I married" thing since I would let her know up-front that she ain't marrying a normal male.
Sounds like someone wants a forced femininization fantasy to live out. In my relationships I am the dominatrix and even though our public decisions are mutual, in the bedroom is where my domination takes hold. I already appear feminine, so whether I'm wearing a dress or pants wouldn't be an issue.
That's what I thought when I first read the thread title.
I can't imagine very many straight women wanting their husbands crossdressed and bent over so the whole question would be moot the other way too.
My answer is "yes" and "no". During intimacy, I love to dress and act as female. I will be happy if my wife dresses and acts as male. During lovemaking, she can imagine that she is a normal genetic male and enjoy or use me as a normal GG. I will be excited and happy. But in professional and social life outside the bed room, I like my male role.
I'll be there
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