Feel inadequate as a woman or in my femininity? NO!! I did, however, wonder how much my SO valued me compared to the CDing for some time in the early stages of our relationship. This was when my SO was expanding all aspects of the CDing: presentation, clothing, social sites, outings, etc. It sometimes felt as if I was optional to the relationship, as if my SO valued the CDing so much more than me. Eventually everything stabilized though, and now it's all OK.
Big time! :p I hate to read the idea that many women "don't pass". :rolleyes: In my view, this is akin to saying that many women fall short of CDers' expectations in the beauty department, as if this is what defines a woman.