sometimes a nice girl, sometimes a sl*t

[Abbygirl]

I find that sometimes I like to be the "good girl", wearing long dresses/skirts with my hair up, small earrings and modest makeup, but many times I get off on being the sl*t- short tight skirts, big forms with protruding nipples, BIG hair, chunky jewelry, way too much makeup and half a bottle of perfume.

Anyone else tend to waft back and forth with their look like this? Just wondering...

[SIZE="1"]background info: my CD'ing occurs entirely within the confines of my house or my girlfriend's house (except for on Halloween) so it's entirely fantasy for me. I don't need to pass.[/SIZE]

[Miss Mandy]

I know exactly what you mean...see my posting in the picture and video forum- "Miss Jessica minus 40"

[Ramie]

I know exactly what you mean, the micro minis showing off the legs with the heels, but I've gone in to a long flowing skirt phase. A lot of it for me is the lingerie. With the longer skirts it's hidden, think naughty librarian. With the short ones, well I have to watch how I walk sit and go up stairs!

[Beverley Sims]

Been there done that and like you only at home.
It is fun being off with the fairies when I can find the time but these days there are new interests like trying to blend in and interact with the women.
Women rarely want to talk about erotic fantasies that I was interested in.

[Kate Simmons]

Not really Hon. I'm only "loose" with the people I care about.

[Traceyjo]

I'm just like you Abby, I love the excitement of dressing as sexy as I can, very short tight dresses or skirts, heels, lots of jewellry, long hair, wanting to feel I could arouse a good looking guy but I also enjoy the much more conservative look of a just a lady around the house, feeling contentedly feminine,

[Yoku Shoujo]

One of my favorite things to do is to dress really sexy: micro mini skirt with a cute thong showing, tiny cropped tube top with a bra (unfortunately I am forced to use water balloons for the breasts until I can build up the money (and courage!) to get the real things) and my black wig (hoping to get a blond one soon as well) and go for a walk down a road that has a lot of truck traffic and tease the truckers
But usually i'm fine in just some 00 skinny jeans which I am perfectly comfortable wearing around my family and in some cases when I go out.

[Ramie]

The micro mini thong combo I only wear at home for modesty! I am proud of my legs and tushie, but have not been out and about, I'm still in the closet so I pretty much wear what I want when I can.

[Tina B.]

I'm not out, but do love to wear mini skirts even at my age, when it's hot out. I mostly wear very Conservative styles, but then every now and then I dig out that big bra, tight short skirt, and low cut top, just for the fun of it.
Tina B.

[Britney Johnson]

Hi... It is impossible for a girl to not want to feel sexy vs pretty sometimes. I always enjoy looking and feeling as sexy as I can. To me it is just that ultra femininity that keeps me going back for more. I always "try" to pass, as much as I can. Looking and feeling sexy I think helps me maintain that high energy feeling when I am at home or out with the girls. There is nothing in life that I want more. Hugz Sweety... Hot n Sexy is always the best...lol

[Brenda Freeman]

I have the same interests. I love dressing up in nice outfits and looking feminine and I love putting on garters nylons and looking and feeling sexy. I have always loved looking at women in nylons and garters and see them as sexy and in control, powerful. I feel that way when I dress that way. Love when I combine both wearing nylons and garters and lingerie under a modet dress. Best of both worlds!

[Babeba]

One of my favorite things to do is to dress really sexy: micro mini skirt with a cute thong showing, tiny cropped tube top with a bra (unfortunately I am forced to use water balloons for the breasts until I can build up the money (and courage!) to get the real things) and my black wig (hoping to get a blond one soon as well) and go for a walk down a road that has a lot of truck traffic and tease the truckers
But usually i'm fine in just some 00 skinny jeans which I am perfectly comfortable wearing around my family and in some cases when I go out.

I hope you live somewhere that prostitution is legal so that when you get assaulted you have at least half a chance of turning to the state for help.

[SANDRA MICHELLE]

I also like the less than demure look from time to time. My wife says all my shoes are ***** shoes, I just don't know what she's talking about,LOL!!! I have a couple of dresses that are way to short and way too young for me but I wear them just the same.

[Stephanie47]

Everything sounds cool! However, hold up on dumping toooooo much perfume on your lovely body. A lot of people are sensitive and allergic to the scent. Ever trapped in an elevator with an elderly lady wearing too much lavender? Yuck! Otherwise, just make sure you have pretty panties on!

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Abby, Oh well it's who we are and it's what we do.

The only rule is there are no rules.

[Sandra]

One of my favorite things to do is to dress really sexy: micro mini skirt with a cute thong showing, tiny cropped tube top with a bra (unfortunately I am forced to use water balloons for the breasts until I can build up the money (and courage!) to get the real things) and my black wig (hoping to get a blond one soon as well) and go for a walk down a road that has a lot of truck traffic and tease the truckers

...and people wonder why the public have such a bad view on the trans community.

[Babeba]

...and people wonder why the public have such a bad view on the trans community.

It took me a while to figure out why Germaine Greer had a problem with the T community... This does clean that up, though.

[whowhatwhen]

...and people wonder why the public have such a bad view on the trans community.

I think it's another one of those 'whatever floats your boat' things which isn't going to be limited to crossdressers.
We all have our kinks, TG or not.

Edit:
Not talking about the trucker thing, that's a bit unsafe no matter what gender you are.
But fantasies are harmless anyway so meh.

[Shananigans]

Do you also watch a lot of porn? Lol jk...sort of...a little TMI, if you will.

I feel sexy when I dress sexy...but I don't get off to myself, nor do I get off to the image of myself. Dressing "****ty" in the bedroom is just a way to boost my confidence, feel good, and look nice for my SO. I guess it could be considered "feeling ****ty" if sleeping with the guy you are dating is ****ty. (?)

In general, if I am out in public, I like to be subtle but sexy. I can show off my curves and some cleavage without showing off all my goods to the world. I don't want to send the wrong impressions and, in general, mystery is a little sexy. I'd say dressing around the house for your SO isn't very ****ty. If you went out dressed with your nipples showing and your underwear hanging out, I would probably just think you are kind desperate. If you dressed that way and got off on the thought/image of yourself dressed ****ty, I'd just say you are kind of narcissistic.

So, that's kind of how it works for me inside and outside of the house.

[Sandra]

What people wear inside their own home is up to them, but I'm sorry to dress like Yoku Shoujo has said she dresses, and to go outside dressed like that is given the community a bad name.

[Shananigans]

What people wear inside their own home is up to them, but I'm sorry to dress like Yoku Shoujo has said she dresses, and to go outside dressed like that is given the community a bad name.

Is this example the first (or, even last) example of what is giving the TG community a bad name?

I have never seen anyone dress like that...we don't even dress like that for foam parties. I suspect people exaggerate heavily. The typical "Row Ho" that hangs out at my SO's fraternity house doesn't even wear that. Although, she was stuck in the 90s a bit with these cut-off shirts that showed her stomach...it was cute until the drinking caught up with her and she was sporting a beer gut. She was rocking the cut-off top, blue eyeshadow, and f*cked up hair until she realized the guys saw her as disposable (they slept with her, but she was never taken to formal or anything), and the sorority girls laughed in her face when she rushed. She calmed down quite a bit and cleaned up and told me she wanted to rush my sorority, but the damage was kind of done. I'm only one person, and I'm only one vote. So, she is kind of alienated by women and the guys could give a sh*t less. Her ****tiness and attire were short-lived.

My point is that most people either exaggerate, or when their appearances back fire they clean up. (AKA they learn better). I am not sure all CDs learn, but I am not sure how many go out on a regular basis (especially, dressed like a crack wh*re).

[Sandra]

Is this example the first (or, even last) example of what is giving the TG community a bad name?

Of course it's not, it's just one of many, but that's for another thread As for seeing people from the trans community dressed liked this, yes I have out and about in public at a TG event in Manchester where a lot of the event is outside, and where joe public is also out and about mingling. I've also been sat having a drink in a hotel, turned and got a face full of bare arse cheeks not a pretty site.

[Stephanie Mancini]

Been dressing nowfor 40 years and i would love to say i dress classicaly but on the otherhand the picture albums from the past tell an entirely different story , its all part of the journey and learning curve we are all on and this place is the crossroads we meet to share it all wether with words or with images


Stephanie

[Silentpartner GG SO]

What people wear inside their own home is up to them, but I'm sorry to dress like Yoku Shoujo has said she dresses, and to go outside dressed like that is given the community a bad name.

I have to agree with you Sandra - and to be honest ***tty dressed CD'ers may feel sexy dressed like that but I seriously doubt they look the least bit sexy to anyone else other than themselves in their own mirrors - its amazing how sexy one can look through rose coloured spectacles.

[Shananigans]

Of course it's not, it's just one of many, but that's for another thread As for seeing people from the trans community dressed liked this, yes I have out and about in public at a TG event in Manchester where a lot of the event is outside, and where joe public is also out and about mingling. I've also been sat having a drink in a hotel, turned and got a face full of bare arse cheeks not a pretty site.

Well, I hope you said something along the lines of, "Oh, wow, I think I can see what you have had to eat tonight!" Or, perhaps, "I think you missed a spot shaving...right cheek." Or, even, "Do you know they can bleach that thing now? Something to consider for your next outfit!"

Bare a$$ can really ruin a good drink...and, a good chair. Subtle b*tchiness might make a point and introduce them to the world of how women subtly scold other women.