Hello all.
Awhile ago, I made a thread due to a girl I liked expressing interest in me, but being turned off to the idea that I crossdress. I had posted that I didn't think it was wise that I give it up simply to be with a girl, and at the time, it felt like a good decision.
Several weeks passsed, and I found myself re-thinking my position on the subject. Unlike alot of ladies here, my activities are more due to a sexual fetish than anything else. I only ever do it when I feel... randy, as it was.
So earlier tonight, I asked her if I gave it up for her, would it be an acceptable situation? Many different things are subject to change when you date someone, or even just start a relationship in general. Some people alter their clothing style, others need to man up and get their life in gear. For me, she just wants me to stop wearing panties. Thinking back on the last month, I got "gussied up" like once. The month before? Not even once. So giving up something that I rarely do to appease a girl who likes me for the wierd, slightly overweight video game playing nerd seems like a good idea to me. However, I also seem to be gifted with a curse of blundering up badly. So I come seeking advice.
Should I give something that I barely do up for the chance of being happy with a girl that I've loved for a few years? I'm not purdging. I told her that I wouldnt touch my things, but I would still keep them for sentimental reasons. Alot of the dresses I got over the years come from friends weddings, etc. and I won't just throw them away. Does it seem like a good idea?