although i am a little older, i am single and date around some, when i meet a lady that i want to ask out on a date i will always tell them before hand i am a c/d, i no longer care to date or spend social time with anyone who does not accept me (us) with open arms and understanding. so far i have had mostly good luck with reactions from people i meet. funny, the different reactions i get range from "why" to "i want to be in bed with you while you are en femme" go figure.....and i thought i was the different one!