I’m feeling disconnected within communities. Being an androgynous person, that is gender-queer/gender-fluid, I find it very hard to relate to a lot of transgender/cross-dressing people. I think it’s for multiple reasons, there might be an age difference, since often people are older than me, also my sense of style and interests are different than a lot, but most of all my gender identity seems different than most. I don’t feel like just a woman, and I don’t feel like just a man, I feel like these two worlds are colliding together, and that makes who I am. There is no pink fog, no switch of mentality, however, my appearance does shift between masculine and feminine, with it quite often falling in the middle, but I do have days where I look completely like a man, and others where I look like a woman. The biggest problem I have is being unable to relate to people, sure I can relate on some levels, like oh hey we wear women’s clothes, but it’s quite depressing not having people really understand your situation. Gender is a unique spectrum with infinite possibilities, so I don’t expect to meet friends that are completely like me. However, if you’re between the ages of 20-35 and feel you sort of relate to this post, especially if you are in the New York area, but you can be in any state, please send me a message. I just sort of want some friends that I can talk to and trust.