Originally Posted by
Badtranny
Being socially awkward is not a good excuse as it is totally fixable, but that's not what makes some CD's creepy. What makes them creepy to EVERY woman is the "man in the back with red eyes and a hat" performance that so many of them have perfected. Girls love to be looked at and noticed and even complimented, but we don't like to be watched, and ogled from two tables over as if we were under investigation. Somebody who is confident and not afraid of his own shadow would walk up to that table and engage that woman (or women) in conversation. "Hi, ever dance with a man in high heels?" "Hi my name is Jasmine, but my mom calls me Bob", there are countless opening lines for a CD who is confident in who he is. Oh, you want to be a little more mysterious with your gender identity? "Hi my name is Misty, sometimes I pretend to be a man, and sometimes I pretend to be a woman, mind if I pretend to buy you a drink?" Geez, I would use any one of these lines if I was dude and I literally just made them all up.
If you want to meet women, than I'm afraid you're just gonna have to get out of your chair and go MEET them. Single women want to be met, my friends and I love it when guys talk to us. We like the attention even if we don't like the guy. There are women that would not mind dating a CD I guarantee it, but they're not out looking for you. If you want to sit in the corner and be demure, that's fine, but get used to sitting alone. Shyness is not an excuse. Shy is a cop-out. I wasn't born an extrovert, I was painfully shy as a kid, hell I used to stutter. I had a weight problem, I was a nerdy bookworm, yadda yadda yadda. Today I will stand up in front of any audience anywhere and talk about anything. I'm no different than "socially awkward" people. I don't have a super power, I was just tired of not being noticed. Like many things in life, your ability to negotiate relationships with people is totally in your control.