I'm still not that daring, and am not into going out in a bright pink dress. I like feminine touches, my idea that on it's own one wouldn't give me a way, but put together it becomes more and more obvious. As I've mentioned I'm quite one for the girlie cardie, but I'm trying to expand on that. I'd love suggestions as to what I could do that is a little, but not overly, girlie. I'm going to try and read stuff like http://www.amazon.co.uk/Summer-Bloss...=1PP992DPDT8J5 on public transport, in the park, etc. Also this one http://www.amazon.co.uk/Sewing-Dummi...7907685&sr=8-2. And maybe a couple of subscriptions to Knitting/Sewing/Crochet magazines. I know this is cliched, and that real women do so much more, but I want to stretch my boundaries a little bit. I'd like to hear suggestions of 'baby steps' I could take to continue my development.