Is anyone else Sick and Tired of it?

[ReineD]

[SIZE="2"]I wouldn’t say that men are visually oriented, rather they are sexually oriented, like hunter/predators, with a view to a kill. "You shore are purdy, darlin..."
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I suppose it's because most men will tell women whatever they think will get them laid in the vast majority of the cases, and that's a compliment, whether it's true or not

Oh no! You're shattering my little world! :p

Seriously, I do see this happening, but men are also capable of becoming smitten. And women have pretty good radars. We can tell the difference between men who just want sex and men who are genuinely attracted to us ... most of the time.

And, well, sometimes a cigar is just a cigar. A man can have a genuine admiration for a woman and tell her so, without necessarily wanting to get into her pants (?)

There was a man fixing water damage to my home who had a gorgeous head of hair. A beautiful strawberry blond color, thick, shiny, wavy, just gorgeous. So I complimented him. He was embarrassed. Maybe he thought I was coming on to him (I wasn't) but he clearly gave the impression he did not appreciate the compliment.