I underdress 24/7 and am either dressed fem or androgynous on the outside (except work). I found out today that my underdressing at work is not as secret as I thought. No one has made any comments towards me about it. So I can't change a whole lot there. I have to dress in the mens lockeroom as the others do too. All I can do is try to dress away from them. My secret (whats left of it) will be out in about 6 weeks.