ok so i have been dressing per se for the better part of the last six years. this might be exactly opposite of most but i feel more masculine, when i go out to a bar or club or whatever i go to that day, in a dress or skirt than i would in drab.
maybe it has something to do with the fact that it takes a lot of courage to go out into public dressed that way, i'm not sure. but for whatever reason i feel stronger, more secure with myself, and a little daring everytime i dress and go out. and to me those are a few of the things that define a man.
i define a real man as a man that can stand up to anything and defend his beliefs, who can take adversity and turn it into something positive, and has the strength courage and wisdom to do whats right or needed no matter the consequences.
so with that definition and the obvious consequences of such behavior i wonder, am i more of a man because i crossdress or am i just a crazy person living in their own world in need of something to claim and make their mark.
i apologize for the semi randomness of this comment but i'm kind of clearing my head and these are all the thought that are floating through the pink stuff currently called my brain. i have pretty tough skin so whatever criticism you have throw it at me. i love honesty