"Every man creates his own hell," as said by many. Now really isn't a good time to talk about this but the reason I'm posting this is because I'm following up on my "fear of hostility" thread I made in my first month on the forums. Now I feel I have the same sense of "hostility" but in a different form. It feels as if the fear has implanted itself in my mind and it's painful, no matter what time of day it is or the situation I'm in. The fact that I'm almost 21 doesn't help either.
It really is that "backed-into-a-corner" situation I'm back in, and it's like that's happening much faster. I did buy the more expensive clothes from Victoria's Secret last week, increasing the hostility because I'm more likely for them to find out. No one in my ohana has questioned me about my crossdressing in a few days and obviously, most of them don't know yet. It's good that they've kept their mouths shut but it's going to have a bad ending and a negative impression on everybody and me personally. I wouldn't be surprised if this kind of news ends up on Facebook, because every single person I know will hate me.
What's worse, is that I cannot and will not see a psychologist because my family will know exactly what I'm discussing-- it could be my day, my frame of mind, or even my crossdressing. Fact is, I can never keep this hidden because I will blindly exploit who I really am. "It's important to know when you've been beaten." Guess which movie the quote is from.
I'm finished venting. How do I make my crossdressing feel less painful, so I don't feel guilty about it, if all this is real at all?