There is seems to be an aversion to the word passing in our community, But no matter how much we urge people not to worry about passing but to focus on expressing their true self the issue always continues to surface.
On any given day we can find a thread asking how well do I pass? If not directly using that word we ask how do I look. How do you like this? The bottom line is no woman wants to be mistaken for a man and the same goes for a transgendered woman.
Because of the baggage associated with the term “passing” I have started using the word “convincing”. I like to say that I make a convincing woman. Let me explain. By paying attention to my fashion, makeup, accessories, mannerisms, voice and actions, I hope to convince the people I interact with to treat me as a woman. I suspect most people, if asked would suspect that something was amiss like I wasn’t really a Miss! (Pun intended).
But given all the gender queues I present they go with what they see. A woman.