Hi, I think my cross dressing had a lot to do with a shoe fetish I have had since a young child. I am almost 34 now and I haven't outgrown this shoe fetish. Is it maybe because I suppressed my dressing till I turned 30? I still am very attracted to women's shoes. I am attracted to women very much but, I never was able to develop a long term relationship. What mental health professionals can I speak with. This fetish has never caused serious problems, but I am not getting women neither and also I am very shy which makes it hard as it is. I am trying to over come drinking also, but this is a totally different story. Thanks family and friends.