I am just being nosey here. I am wondering why so many people here feel they have to pass as female rather than just being a man in female clothing?
I understand those who have gender issues, that makes perfect sense as you are just trying to achieve/be what you feel - and rightly so.
But what about those who inside feel they are male, have no desire to have gender realignment? Why do so many feel you must be able to pass as a woman, rather than just being a man wearing feminine clothing? Is it a self defence mechanism to try and stop/limit any staring or possible "issues" when out in public or are some just following a... trend if that is the right word... that says the "normal" for a crossdresser is to try and pass as female? Or is it something else?
I am looking at it from a perspective where I make no effort to hide who I am. I simply wear female clothes to various degrees based on where I am and what I am doing. Example being taking my wife to hospital this week. I wore NO male clothes at all. Everything was female from trainers to jeans, to top to jumper and handbag. My wife was okay with it as I looked decent and just had a "feminine air" to me, but was not trying to disguise that I was male. It did not stop her holding my hand as we walked in and out of the hospital or dealt with the doctors who where seeing her that day. As we drove home, I even had to ask her to go in my bag in the car to get something out and she did without any issue.
I hope that makes sense and I am in no way trying to pick fault or upset/annoy anyone. I am just trying to understand why the majority seem to have a need to pass as female, and why I appear to be in the minority who don't.