My question is being a CD and having two sides both male and female, do we have a better understanding of the gender gap?
Personally I believe that I do. In my early years there was a definite separation of my male and female sides. As I have grown, both of my sides have grown closer together with my female side slightly stronger. My male side was harsh, rude and mad where my fem side is calming, caring and understanding.
When my SO is having a problem, my instant response is to offer a solution then I realize that she just wants someone to listen. I understand getting ready to go out involves the right outfit, the right makeup and the right accessories. In male mode I would just slap something on and wonder what was taking so long. I care more about cleanliness and neatness where my male side would throw everything on the floor. I’m pickier about décor than my male counterpart. I understand being able to let meaningless things go with out a fight where my male self would run someone off the road for cutting me off (and I have).
On the other hand my female side would never understand why the male needs to wash the truck every week, sweep the driveway and have a big screen TV, microwave and fridge in the garage (theater seating would be nice also).