The change from masculine to feminine is quite sudden for me and is illustrated by this story:
on a hot day when returning home from work, I usually get out of my formal work clothes as soon as possible and put on just some shorts or occasionally a little skirt as it's cool. I still feel male and, should my wife be there, am able to perform as a man.
With the same skirt on, if I then add hose, heels, make up etc, I soon become very feminine in my feelings and all male desires vanish, and I am helpless in the bedroom.
Do other members experience the same sudden transition?