I told my mother about 5 years ago over the cellphone on a elevated highway in a city while I was leaving a psychologist. It took a lot of talking and my older brother's explaining to her later that night. My mom is slightly crazy I think. Something strange though is that she told me my biological father whom i've never met was also a crossdresser and that I've always reminded her of him and that's part of the reason for her hatred of the idea of it. My nonbiological father who has been there since I was three she actually told about 6 months ago after telling her even more and that it wasn't actually just about clothes and stuff and that I actually was a girl in my head and that everything that iv'e experienced since my birth has been trying to find a way to fit in and my male persona was a culmination of everything i've been trying to figure out how to fit into and a repression of my true self, I brought down a bunch of my clothes and shoes to show her that it was just normal clothes like jeans shirts and shoes to make me feel like a normal girl every night, she seemed cool with it, then the next day she freaked out on me with my dad and said the most incredibly hurtful things to me, but when I walked out the front door in bare feet and a t shirt in light snow and left she yelled after me and said she wasn't a psychologist and blamed me for having thrown all this stuff on her and they said they didn't know about me like this for the last 27 years while they've been saying horrible things about people like me and making me feel like I do today. So now everyone just pretends it doesn't exist. I apologize for the long post, I write everyyything when i'm drinking, lol.