Reading a few posts on here (such as Amy R Lynn 's recent post) has got me wondering something...
We all know that telling someone else that you dress in women's clothes is one of the hardest things to do as you can never accurately judge how a person will react initially or after they have had time to think it over.
Some people take it well, are happy and accepting - others have major issues and it causes either major problems or people to split up in the worst cases. What I am wondering is whether the real issue is the dressing itself or that (as it seems with Amy's case) it is the presenting as female that is the issue - or is it both.
I can only look at my own situation where my wife freaked at the start but has come to accept what I do and why I do it - and it has not harmed our marriage or relationship in any way. But as I do not present as female that is something she does not have to deal with. "Klaire" is my second life persona and a name I have given to the other part of my personality - but to everyone I know I am "Rob" (not my real male name), always have been and always will be.
I know there is no real answer to this but it would be interesting to know what others think on this. But it seems to me reading various posts on here that it is the people who present as female who seem to have more.... issues... with relationships. I may be completely wrong here hence my post. I would love it if some GG's would also chip in as they perhaps are the best people to answer this.
Anyone can to express an opinion?