I mark 8th April 2012 as my liberation day, as it was the day I confessed all to my wife. Usual story, I thought I was the only deviant in the world. Luckily, I found this site back in February 2012 and quickly realised that I was not a weirdo and that there were many others similar in thought.
Anyway, to cut a long story short, we are still together, she helps me buying clothes and even borrows from my wardrobe. However, she is still coming to terms with my CDing so I said it was OK to tell her sister, with whom she is very close. I know my wife can ask questions on here as a GG but I believe that our family members have that intimate connection she needs.
So now my secret is out to a second person that knows me and if I’m totally honest, I seriously don’t care who knows at this precise time. I would prefer that no one from my work knows, as my work and social life are completely separate. My work takes me away from my home area and I’ve been out twice from the hotel this week, open for the world to see me. I checked out and drove home en femme too. This isn’t pink fog, just a straight, “If my wife can accept me, I couldn’t give a damn if no one else does” approach.
It’s definitely too late now to put the old genie back in the bottle, but if life is easier for my wife, then I’m a happier girl too. I should add for clarity that my wife asked if it was OK to tell her sister, rather than me using the situation to further my own cause. Today was a loving day with my wife, like a weight was lifted from her shoulders, so I’m hoping this telling proves to be a release for her.
Thoughts appreciated but please be gentle