Nancigirl, I am not being hostile or judgmental as you perceive the meaning of those two words. I don't wish to be judged any more then anyone else. But at the same time I know my actions and words will be judged if I act inappropriately or even dress in a manner that most people don't understand or like to see. One reason I don't go out dressed as a few here do. You are judging me by merely posting your opinion on what I and others have said. Kind of the pot calling the kettle black.
You are right, this place usually is very friendly, supportive and a welcoming place. The vast majority of my posts will clearly show you that I am very friendly, supportive and welcoming to new and old members alike. However, from time to time we have inappropriate threads or topics that we question and challenge the OP on. In fact, our challenge just might get the OP to explain or be more detailed in an effort to dis-spell our disbelief. It might even make for a better thread.
You have a right to your opinion just as I do. You are obviously OK with some making up stories and trying to fool us just to get attention. And that's OK. I'm not OK with it and entitles to my opinion just as you and everyone else is.
So I guess to you, if we don't agree with you, we are being judgmental and hostel? I don't think so.