I love to go out in public day or night. I can't stop wearing short skirts. I usually wear a pair of flat or non healed boots (because I'm so tall) and a zip up jacket or hoodie. Do you think I am too noticeable because of my provacative attire??
Is it ever too sexy??
I love to go out in public day or night. I can't stop wearing short skirts. I usually wear a pair of flat or non healed boots (because I'm so tall) and a zip up jacket or hoodie. Do you think I am too noticeable because of my provacative attire??
You're asking a loaded question...and really provide the answer in your question. If you go out in provocative attire, to use your words, then there's a very good chance that you'll be too noticeable.
Sometimes girls want to be noticed. But the wrong kind of attention can bring problems
impossible to say without a photo!
There can never bee too sexy, however, easily it can become too provocative, too offensive, too.....
Sexy isn't in the attire and I truly don't think attire can make someone sexy, however attire can make you fashionable, well put, presentable, youthful, chic, elegant, attractive......
Sexy is in essence of ones comfort with their sexuality and core being, it is the energy of poise, comfort of being, and sensual charge without hidden agenda!
Look around, you will see the Kiddies, (Under 20) wear all kinds of cute things, they are still testing
their powers out. After 20, women are a bit more Conservative, they do not want to catch trouble when out.
So I would say, Dress your age group, I think you will blend in more.
Rader
It depends on your motive. As Inna pointed out, the clothing has nothing to do with being sexy. That comes from within you.
Second star to the right and straight on till morning
Whenever I go out [unless to a T friendly club] I dress to blend in. That's just me, I am very conservative in both male and female mode. Most of the time anything provocative will get you noticed [and usually clocked].
Some love getting noticed, so it's up to you. But I would say that dressing that way does get you noticed.
Really depends..... post a few photos so we can make a more educated guess! lol
haha i am no "kiddie" i am a grown a** woah man! haha no but you are on to it. if you have the body for it, and can pull it off then you may attract the positive attention for it. but when i wear a mini dress or skirt i always have to remind myself that there is a time and a place, so just take a few to think about it. but more power to you =)Originally Posted by RADER
The answer is in the question. If you think your attire is provocative, there ya go.
What is your definition of "short"? With no pic we can't possibly judge..................................
[SIGPIC]
Tall is going to be noticed before sexy and provocative.
Two formulae here.
Short slim and sexy.
Tall slim and stupid.
Add a mini skirt and it exacerbates the problem.
A picture would be of great assistance to the answer.
Work on your elegance,
and beauty will follow.
Yes. Yes. Yes...and YES
(This response is posted with my cynical tongue firmly planted in my cheek!)
QT, you have a right to wear whatever you want. If a naughty, testosterone loaded male accosts you and molests you, it is entirely his fault. You will in no way be to blame.
Having said that, let me return to normal and say ...
QT, the choice is yours. My advice would be to look after your own health and safety, 'cos no-one else will.
IMHO, sexy and provocative will stand out much more considerably more readily in most situations than an individual a few inches above average (6' isn't that tall).
6'4" in heels and a sexy dress... I stand out, but I'm doing what makes me happy so I don't mind. I also don't dress too often, so I think when I do I like to make it extra feminine, which I guess I associate with sexy tight dresses and skirts, but I don't feel its too much or too far.
Maybe, probably - but so what. If that is what makes you feel good, you are OK.
I have learned, much to my dismay, that if one advertises her wares in a provocative manner, expect what you might not expect. I get hit on constantly at the clubs, and some of you will be pissed at me for saying this, but IT GETS OLD very quickly, so I dress down more often now than not just to avoid unwanted attention. Daylight hours means jeans, a simple top and downgraded makeup. No smoky eye. No bright red lipstick, etc. BUT for the clubs, anything goes!!! Have fun with this aspect of your life but realize that just as GGs have to put up with comments, come ons and put downs, so do we. Dress as you feel and realize that in boy mode, in many ways, life is a helluva lot easier, trust me...
How many CD's fit on the head of a pin, QT? It depends on how they're dressed, rite? Like Silent Partner said, how can we tell without seeing?
Personally, I don't think it's POSSIBLE to dress TOO SEXY! And, Sherry lives with that edict!
But, I'm NOT so sure Bubba , the 6' 6", 325 lb. guy at Walmart carrying a pitch fork, feels the same way!
U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.
Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!
There is a very fine line between "provocative" and "****ty.". Just like pornography, I know it when I see it. I personally do not think any crossdresser can pull off a "provocative" look. Women have a different shape than us, so a CD just ends up looking sad and pathetic.
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