Yeah - I think I picked the wrong word for the subject line - although it does feel like a compulsion at times. I was thinking about how I personally am always around females and female clothing everyday, all the time. And because I am severely limited in how I can dress, it's just some days mentally crippling. It is a need for me, and it's like a hungry man with a plate of food just out of reach. Very Greek tragedy. It's wanting what you can't have and some days it just feels so strong I would hazard its the equivalent of trying to stay sober.
But thankfully as socially unacceptable as it is to be a dude in a dress, it's still okay, it's a lifestyle, it doesn't hurt anyone, it doesn't have a negative impact unless you're dishonest with yourself or loved ones (working on that one) and doesn't involve foreign cartels (unless we're talking European fashion houses - then yes).
And I think the pharmacological aspect would be interesting to examine. Thanks for bringing that up ReluctantDebutant. I bet all my pleasure receptors are all firing off at once while dressed. Reinforcing behavior for sure.
And my apologies to those who are offended by my use of the word, or to those who struggle with real addictions. The depression from being who you aren't takes a lot of different forms and there's so many ways to cry out for help. I'm looking forward to the day society accepts the teenage boy in a skirt as normal, where no religion values it's dogma over his or her health and happiness. Then maybe we'll see some real addictions fade into the background.