FOUR questions. And this thread is not an endorsement to simply throw caution to the wind and leap out of the closet.
This thread has nothing to do with "passing" either.
1] How many months or years have you been going out dressed at least partly in what "Society" would consider "female" clothing items. Underwear of any kind does not count.
2] Any of your friends, relatives or coworkers aware of your proclivities? If so, did your Relationship with them "suffer" in any way or end? Maybe got better?
3] In all the times you have been out in public, how many times would you guess you had a bad or unpleasant experience?
4] Have you ever felt you were in any DANGER from any of those bad experiences? Danger as in possible bodily harm by some means.