Having been married and divorced ~ once, and having co-habituated with another GG for almost six years, etc, I have finally come to the conclusion that I cannot live with a GG, and not long be drawn toward the trappings of femininity ~ that is to say her clothes, jewelry, makeup, etc.
Which then brings in the moral delamina of one not using the personal belongings of another person without their permission ~ which leads to the next logical step of purchasing one’s on belongings.
If you’ve not been up front about your cross-dressing desires/ needs, then once again you’ve crossed a moral line of departure, in that you have not been completely honest about who are as a person.
Having lived my life for just about everyone else, and finding myself single, I have come to the conclusion that I need to be living my life for myself.
Given the devastating mental, emotional, psychological, not to mention financial cost of divorce ~
Brings me to the point of this thread. Is it better to be single and alone ~ and be true to yourself ~ or to be in denial of your true and complete self, for the sake of being in a relationship?