When out for a drive (dressed) fairly early in the morning ever stop the car, get out and walk to the front of a store (not open) in a strip mall and check yourself out by the reflection in the store window. You get to see your total self from head to toe, much better than a mirrow at home. You can see yourself from any angle you choose and the excitement of leaving the safety of being in the car and walking in public to the store front. Walking in heels from store to store also feels pleasantly feminine. When I do this I see an attractive, curvy feminine woman looking back at me and it feels good, just another step up from the confinement of staying in the house or car. Ley's just say this is a way of getting out but not being outed. If anyone has tried this or is thinking about trying it tell us about your experience.