Would you rather fully accept yourself as a cd, and love yourself, but be single and lonely forever (you'll still have friends and stuff, just no wife/family). OR would you rather have a loving and caring SO and family, but bury the cd part of you deep down, and never let it come out again. I feel like these are going to end up being my crossroads one day. I just turned 20, but these are the paths I predict in my near future. which road would you take if you were my age with your knowledge now?