Hey girls,
So while using the search feature on here to see if my question has been answered I noticed something, and I am wondering/hoping that other people get this too.
Most people, when in the pink fog, get moody when they arent dressed, and that makes sense, we like wearing womens clothes so ofc we'll be stressed when that cant happen. My SO however has said that lately, for 1-1.5 weeks per month since June at least I have been distant, moody, snappy and generally a T#@t coinciding with me letting the girly side come out again, sleeping in my womens Pj's, shaving my legs and changing into leggings and a sweater dress after work instead of guy jeans and hoodie. I have not noticed this myself at the time, and I cant think why this would happen, but thinking about it I can kinda see what she's talking about.
Just before December last year I had about 5 sessions with a free councillor through work (whilst I was waiting on an NHS therapist) not a gender specialist, just a kinda generic counciller, this was after I was getting depressive and put on meds by my doctor, I put it down to the crossdressing and thought maybe my want to be a woman was turning into a need, i'm not sure, but my free sessions stopped and I feel like I kinda drew a line under it, my GP and free therapist was asking why I was wanting an NHS appt, did I want to transition, like what do you want from this, and I was never really able to answer.
Now like 7 months after I came off the depression meds and decided nope, I'm a man, I have a family, things are good etc, it seems like these bloody gender issues in my head are starting to return, I hate myself for having baby sensitive skin that means I couldnt shave everyday if I wanted to, and I REALLY do, i've started losing a bit of weight and feel actually sad that my little man boobs that have developed, and they are little, might disappear, like wtf's going on in my head, I feel like theres 2 people in there, a conforming, shy guy, and an angry woman, pissed at the guy for not just saying **** the world i'm gonna at least be andro and I dont care what any of you think!!
Is it normal to get angry when you want to dress up and when the pink fog seems to be descending?? It seems to me like its normally the other way round and its yet another thing for me to feel I'm not normal about, sorry kinda ranted there, not even sure I've put across what I wanted to say lol, but hopefully I can get some advice!
Thanks
Cara x