of an eye? Oh really? Sorry but I just ain't buying it.
OR, do you put CDing in a complete class all on it's own? I CERTAINLY hope not. I can think of numerous "other" things that might have been of "extreme importance" to one party at some point in their life, that they did not need or want to disclose to their SO for WHATEVER reason.
Or are people really silly enough to summarily chuck perhaps 10 or 15 or 20 years of perhaps an incredible partnership down the drain because you DISCOVER something about your SO that you never knew or suspected and are hurt because they never bothered to tell you? WHY would they not want to share it with you. The trust is BROKEN? And they don't want to talk about. Or can't. Or won't.
"What else might they be lying about"? Oh please.
20 YEARS down the drain?
This is simply a question and is not directed at anyone or in reference to any other posts.
Food for thought and nothing more.