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    Smile All the way, the 1st time

    Hey Ladies

    Yes, I did go all the way the first time out. Wig, blouse, skirt, necklace, all the appropriate undies, a pair of pumps and a suede jacket, every thing a lady would need including a purse.

    I was off to meet "Alison" a crossdressers.com friend, to attend a "Diablo Valley Girls" Social.
    I share an two level apartment, I'm upstairs and I have to pass through the downstairs kitchen to get to the carport. The other tenant doesn't know I crossdress, so I have my skirt, wig and purse in my backpack, my jacket is covering my necklace, blouse and boobs. I manage to reach my car without being detected, (it's dark bout 7:00 pm) so off I go to Wal-Marts huge parking lot, where I planned to change into my skirt and to put on my wig. No problems with this plan, when I was finished dressing, I looked over at the entrance to the store, and said to myself why not. I took a leisure stroll through the lot, no one paid any attention to me, into the store I go, head held high strolling like a lady, examining the merchandise and just plain enjoying the new experience, of course I was scared as all hell, but thrilled just the same.

    Okay, I passed at Wal-Mart and my confidence is way up, so off I go to the meeting place, I find the general area "1220 Pine St." (A Gay bar with no sign) I find a parking place, but can't find the entrance, a couple of well dressed gentlemen walking by asked "can we help you mam" I didn't blink an eye, told them what I was looking for, they directed me to a hole in the wall door, and that was it, passed again.

    I was the first to arrive for the 8:00 pm Social, but the bar was open, about half full of customers, both male and female, I was treated cordially, passed the time away chatting and drinking plain 7up. About 7:55 Donna, a very nice person who was in charge of the Social showed up, then Alison arrived along with a bunch of the other Diablo Valley Girls. It was a very casual social, about 12-14 lovely interesting members and everyone of them friendly, they all passed my inspection. I was so impressed with this group, that I joined and am now a proud dues paying member. Before leaving Donna directed me to the Women's Restroom.

    I managed to change back into my drab in the carport, got passed my landlady and called it a night.
    Summary: Zippity Do Da, Zippity Day, my oh my what a wonderful day.

    Ricki B
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    way to go ....sounds like a good night out ....way cool.........

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    Congratulations, Ricki! It sounds like you had a great time.
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    All right Ricki. Way to go girl.

    It's nice you found a group to join. That makes it so much easier to go out. Sounds like you gained a lot of confidence so I'm sure there'll be no keeping you down on the farm now.


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    Thanks for sharing, Ricki....

    .......I'm jealous!!!

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    You'll never forget the excitement of your first time and it gets better and better! Congrats and wasn't it great?!
    Girls just want to have fun... MMMM!

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    Congratulations Ricki -- I am so thrilled for you that you got to experience such a memorable event. You're doin' great, gurl!!

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    Very cool, Ricki -- congratulations on such a successful first voyage out!
    “I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.”
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    Thank you Ladies, now I'm really inspired.

    Hey Ladies,
    Here's my picture, me with my 1st time outfit.

    Wendy, thanks you. you're ....way cool too.
    Marlena, it was a great time.
    Katie, a perfect response, thank you.
    Karen, everyone should be jealous, it was great.
    Darby, you're right, I'll never forget the excitement.
    Shannon, thank you, your complements mean so much to me.
    Sharon, congratulations from the Champion, I'm honored.

    Love you all, Ricki B
    Last edited by Paula Rae; 08-29-2006 at 12:52 PM.
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    Go Ricki... go Ricki... go Ricki...
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    Isn't going out grand? I don't know why, but it just is. And is DVG's a good group? Do they meet any time other than like Tuesdays?

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    Smile Thank you ladies, now I'm back on top.

    Holly, I'm going, I'm going, I'm going.

    Joanna, The Diablo Valley Girls socials are the 1st & 3rd Mondays, holidays included, the meeting place is a very discrete Gay Bar in a nice part of town, if the bar is open they meet. To answer your question: are they a good group? I joined, and paid dues through Dec. 2006.

    Ricki B
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    I don't know how I missed this one, but Ricki - good for you girl! Sounds like you had a great time and found a fantastic group!
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    Rita Says

    Hey my good friend Ricki,
    You once told me you would never go out in public, well you certainly did an about face.
    Congratulations, I didn't think you had it in you.
    Love you

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    Smile Some times good things come in threes.

    Hey Ladies

    1. My first time out was a total success.
    2. I met some really great people and joined their organization "Diablo Valley Girls"
    3. I was asked if they could print this thread, in their bulletin.
    They really liked it, and of course I said yes.

    This has been one great week for me, and I must give credit to you (The Forum).
    With out you guys, I would still be out there on my own, wondering why I was one of those weirdo perverts, who like to wear women's clothing.

    Ricki B
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    Hi Ricki,

    I'm happy to hear you had such a great time. Woo hoo!

    I have always heard nice things about the DVG. I bet you're looking forward to the next social already.

    And you went into Wal-Mart??? You didn't just get your feet wet, you dove in at the deep end! Good for you, and I hope others will be inspired to follow in your footsteps.
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    Smile

    Ricki.....

    WOW... what a milestone! How marvelous......I an so envious....It gives me hope and makes me want to speed things up a bit so that I might have a chance to sample the nightlife!

    Hugs,

    Suzy

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    Congratulations, Ricki! It sounds like you had a great time.

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    All the same old clichés... Is it woman? Is it man?
    And you always seem outnumbered, you don't dare make a stand
    Make your stand"

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    Hi Ricky

    I am so envious of you. Would love to work up the nerve to go all out.

    Well done susan.

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    A Heroine

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    Go Girlfriend ! Well done Congratulations Ricki !
    Keep up the good work.
    One small step for man one giant leap for your femininity.

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    Some Girls Have All the fun

    Well done Ricki
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    Smile Time to let this thread end

    Hey Ladies,

    It's been a wonderful experience and I want to thank each and every one of you who took the time to read my thread and a special thanks to all of you who responded.
    That said, it's time to let this thread end, and move on. Again thank you Ladies & GGs for your support and understanding, I love all of you.

    Dana J, Thank you for your compliments and your support.
    Rita, I always had it in me, I just didn't know how close to the surface it was.
    Marla, I did have a great time and the DVG group will appears to be just what I need. Woo hoo!
    Suzy, A milestone indeed, I feel so good that you're inspired by my coming out.
    Amber, Thank you for your kind comments, I'm still having a great time, the thrill goes on.
    Susan, I didn,t have to work up the nerve, as crazy as it seems I just did it
    Sandy, A Heroine, I think not, but thank you. I'm just a regular guy trying to be a girl.
    Shelly, You're right, "Some girls have all the fun" I've had more than my share.

    Ricki B
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