Open Letter to all of my Sisters
Gender roles have become very interesting. Men are not allowed to dress as women, thus forcing us to become somewhat manic-obsessive. Women are allowed to be as masculine as they want and little pain will come to them from it.
Think about this: If a woman were to come up to a bar and ask for a bud-light, something distinctly not feminine, she would be accepted and not think anything of it. If a man were to go to a popular nail salon and ask for a manicure and a pedicure and start talking about, "how simply lovely the weather has been recently." He would probably get his service, but would be remembered as "that guy" and many would think it odd. Getting ones nails done is no less of a gender stretch than buying a cheap beer once was, yet one is accepted and one is not?
Why can a woman have short hair, yet a man is usually harrassed (by someone at least) for having long hair?
Not long ago Gay men were completely ostricized by society. They were forced to live in secret and hide their identities. Their lives were lived in abject horror, and they still face challenges, but are able to live openly (for the most part).
Not long ago, a woman in trousers was considered an oddity. She must have soething wrong with her to do such a thing. Now one will hardly notice a woman in a dress without thinking, "gee... you don't see that every day!"
Why did these things change? These things changed because public awareness was riased and people were made to know that it existed and that social stereotypes were stupid. When is the last time you saw a CD on the news doing something to help the community? When is the last time you saw a TS helping clean up city streets?
You are out there, you who know what you do and how you live. This is a call for the CD/TS/TG (whatever) community to step out of doors and do something with the community. Perhaps you'll do it in drab, but if we let people know who we are and that we're not gang-raping murderers, we'll be more and more accepted.
Ok.
I'm done now.
Megan
PS - this reads better if you imagine a CD in a business suite pounding a podium.