My fetish side is my fun side.
My woman side is my default side. I use this side of me to socialize.
When I have been to any given event, say a wedding, I do not enjoy dressing as a male, that is a suit & tie. The notion of palling around with a bunch of dudes, and smoking cigars , and talking cars and sports has long since lost my interest.
I feel profoundly jealous of the women , they have infinite choices to look pretty. ....wish it was me.