Now this is funny. . .
I'm out with my lovely girlfriends Melissa Rose and Tilda last night. We are having dinner at a nice restaurant before a concert and sitting outside enjoying the nice weather.
We are eating and chatting and I look up and see my mother-in-law standing about 10 feet away! Note: I am not out to her. She glances over and for a split second I am speechless! In a second that seemed like an hour, she and HER girlfriends walk out.
Well I let Melissa and Tilda know what just happened, laugh, and go back to my salad.
Bottom line is she probably saw three women sitting at a table. Maybe she saw three transwomen sitting at a table. But she sure as hell didn't see her son-in-law in jeans, a cute lace top and shoulder length brunette hair sitting at that table.
Context is a HUGE part of whether ANYBODY you know would recognize you if they saw you out en femme. Don't worry, be happy (dammit!)!
BTW, concert afterwards was AWESOME!!!! Nick Lowe still rocks that guitar!
Have a nice weekend!