A really close friend of mine got engaged this past week. I’ve been so happy for him! He asked me to be his best ‘girl’. (i.e. He wants me to be his best man, but he wants me dressed up similar to the brides’ maids). At first, I was ecstatic at the thought of being able to wear such a lovely formal gown! Then reality sunk in. I would be my femme self in front of people I’m not sure I’d feel 100% comfortable being dressed around yet. I've been out in public lots and never really worried about it since the chance of bumping into someone I knew that didn't already know about me was very slim. But this would be in a very intimate gathering where my friends families will be at, and I don’t want to cause a scene for him and his bride (she knows about me too and is cool with it). He’s very intent on me being there as Jaye, but I have some reservations about going through with it. I'm leaning towards doing. Should I?