Point taken, Jennifer, and while you may feel that your original post was misinterpreted and you have emerged from this encounter slightly bruised by all the negative feedback, it did serve one useful purpose. It opened up a dialog concerning the sharing of clothing by us CDers with family members in general, and around which there are many unspoken taboos.
If it is done with the full knowledge and approval of one's wife, girlfriend, or SO, then more power to the two parties involved, and knock yourselves out. But if it is done without the other person's knowledge or permission and if family members are involved - especially children - then that's a whole different matter and the creep factor comes into play.
This topic has been discussed many times in these forums, and it has generally been acknowledged as being a "no fly zone" and a potential deal-breaker in an otherwise solid relationship. Some lines one simply does not cross, and for many women this is one of them. It may be an irrational over-reaction in some peoples' minds, but it is what it is.
The consensus in our community seems to be "don't borrow; get your own", especially if one is tempted to surreptitiously try on or borrow someone else's clothes when the opportunity arises - and even more so when lingerie or other types of underwear or intimate clothing are involved.
