I know I am starting to sound like a broken record but this is what happened. I have not worked a Saturday for the last ten years and for the last ten years one of the kids have been home. We were busy at work and I had to work the past two Saturdays and believe it or not both Saturdays no one was home both days. WOW! What are the chance's of that happening. So last Sunday the kids went out and said they were going to be gone for the day. OMG finally a chance to fully dress, make-up and all. They were both leaving by nine that turned into eleven, but no problem I have all day. I finally fully dressed everything had to be perfect an hour later I was ready. I came out of my room and my wife told me that both neighbors were out to get the camera and she would take some pictures in the yard. I got the camera and I was opening the sliding door when the phone rang. NO NO not the phone, I didn't want to answer it but having older parents you can't help not to answer. It's my mother in law and she tells me that her car wouldn't start and she can't get a hold of her son and if I can help her out. **** **** can you believe this, I tell her I will be there as soon as possible. I lose my cool and start taking things off and throwing them everywhere and just couldn't believe this, all I was saying was, she never go's out what made her go out today. So swearing the hole time undressing and washing the make-up off, all at once my wife loses her cool and tells me that she is on board with all the dressing and all she wants is to see me happy even if it involves me hiding cloths and wearing women cloths but she can't stand when I freak out at a lost opportunity and how I get nerves when I don't get a chance to dress and If she was to lose interest it's just for that and she has no patients for me when I get that way. I stop and look at her and realize that she was right I felt so selfish, it's true all I have to say that I like something and without asking her if she finds it she will buy it, and always telling me not to be scared to ask for something life is once try to live all your fantasies. I gave her a hug told her I was sorry and off I went. Well by the time the tow truck came and I drove my mother in law home and stopped for flowers for my wife I had enough time to put everything away and my son came home. Another lost opportunity but a wake up call to look at the big picture and not be so selfish. Has this ever happened to anybody else when your home everyone is home and when your out the house sits empty or do I just have bad timing.