Handing out candy on Halloween crossdessed to little kids? Is that really a good idea eventhough it is Halloween? Thats what I thought about doing but I think it is best to bypass that and do something else.
Handing out candy on Halloween crossdessed to little kids? Is that really a good idea eventhough it is Halloween? Thats what I thought about doing but I think it is best to bypass that and do something else.
That's an excellent question. I have wondered the same thing.
A few years ago I dressed as a witch. My wife hated it, but all of the neighbor ladies who brought their kids over thought it was great. I would say keep it "G" rated and you'll have a better chance of acceptance.
I've done it. Kids and parrents got a big kick out of it.
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That IS a tough question, depending own your circumstance, oye veh, I'll watch for more comments....
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I've done it twice, about 2008-2009, I received no negative feedback. I don't believe that I was in my flapper outfit, but it may have been, the flaaper outfit I believe I purchased in 2010.
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A witch outfit...I have all I need but wanted to wear a black miniskirt, black tights with highheels. Is that just a little bit sleezy..how about a black skirt just above the knees?
I think you'll get away with it if it's a female costume rather than just dressed en femme in regular female clothes. Just my 2 cents.
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In 2008-2009 I belive that I wore a Wonder Woman outfit, if my memory isnt' playing tricks on me.
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I would say no. You'll become to be known as that weird dude in "xyz" colored house. It's odd, it will be seen as odd.
Bypass that and do something else. You will creep your neighbors out.
Not a halloween person so leave it a lone all together
I've done it and had no negative reactions from neighborhood kidsnand lots if positive comments from female parents about my legs. May do it again this year.
No. Dont dress up as a woman for the display to children. Its their holiday. Not an adult holiday.
1920s clothing for women of, ummm, wobbly moral compass.
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I've considered it, but the problem is that I don't consider Eryn to be a costume. I'd rather be doing somethng that I enjoy if I'm going to go to the trouble of getting dressed and made up.
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its ok to be a which on halloween
Dress in a costume for sure and it would not seem sinister as it would regularly dressed to pass as a female.
I also agree Eryn is not a costume, neither is Beverley, but what about that flapper outfit?
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I guess it depends on how open minded your neighbors are. Then if you decide to, I would suggest a modest witch costume or something on that line. To go enfemme may not be just the best idea.
This is the problem why we think we are not accepted. dont dress how you normally dress as a female, but really over do it for hallaween. I could care a S less if im known as that weird dude, tough i have never passed out candy. I come n go from home all the time dressed. Were not harming anyone and overall good neighbors so were not weird.
Do what you want. Just watch that fine line between what people perceive as you just being a weirdo crossdresser and you being a weirdo pedophile crossdresser trying to lure kids with candy.
People jump to all sorts of conclusions and you don't want to end up on the evening news.
if anyone wants to pass out candy, dont do it dressed period? I dont get it. Im sure our neighbors see us as we come and go. I really dont associate with neighbors. just hello and good bye, thats it. Keep the yard yp and the curb appeal, its ALL THEY ASK and quiet
when is society going to educuate people? it starts with kids. were ot weirdos, we are just in the wrong bodies and need to express out fem side. Let that be known and thats all that has to be known.
Last edited by Eryn; 10-22-2012 at 12:43 AM.
I should inform my sister that it's not an "adult" holiday so she can call off the party and not have to worry about decorating the house for 30+ adults...
Personally, I think that Halloween is for everyone. I still keep candy around on the 31st, but more just in case. I've had 5 groups of trick-or-treaters in as many years. My costume this year is femme based, however I'm not using Halloween as my reason for dressing en femme. "It's Halloween!" does seem like a handy excuse for answering the door dressed as a woman...but I still prefer the fun of adding a costume to the mix!
i agree. I guess dressing how we usually dress to pass would be king of weird, just like any genetic male or female without a costume.
Yup. Halloween is for everybody. But adults who want to enjoy it might want to dress up and go hit the clubs. Far more fun than passing out candy to kids who don't need candy in the first place :P