I had chance to go out for the first time in a few years. I have gained some weight and don't think that I look as good as I used to. I was traveling and stopped for gas and a snack and went into this gas station and was totally read. It did get me thinking, what is it that gets us read. My clothes were very nice and classy, my wig isn't bad, my makeup is good, so my conclusion is it must be just actions and attitude. It could also be the 6'4" 220 lbs. I just don't know and it is interesting to speculate. Other than a few snickers it was fun and the rush is just incredible. I still struggle with the idea of passing versus acceptance and I would love to have the courage to go out and not worry about passing but I am not there. Any comments and ideas would be appreciated.
Thanks
Bwoemerger