If you normally spend time at home "dressed" [when your SO is home] I am guessing you aren't always 100% "visually" typical female? As in forms, wigs, makeup etc.?
The actual question is about your presentation or mannerisms. [when dressed] Do you "do your best" to soften your voice, walk differently, stand differently and basically do everything you would do to "pass" if out in public?
I ask because of the many folks here with DISapproving SOs. I wonder if it was ONLY the clothes, if some SOs might or could soften their stance? Or do you think it would make any difference at all?