My wife has made it explicitly clear that if I present more fulltime in public then she will definitely loose interest with me as a lover but will be there to support me as a friend. Although I may have wishful thinking we have discussed this over and over again and again and I am grateful still and shouldn't ask for anything more but I do, I think we all do. As I get use to the fact that I can go out and be free I also crush the image of a man that she fell in love with. Right now we are trying to strike a balance of couse, but it seems like the only win win situation is to have weeks of none dressing male mode and then have weeks of dressing female mode.
Im still looking for that balance to make her and I happy because in the end for me she was the one who helped me discover myself and allowed me to grow as a femme boy.