So, how many of you girls like to be tied up when in your fineries?
Does your SO participate, or is it a private thing?
For me, it's the icing on the already tasty cake. Feels wonderful to be the captive damsel and just let it all go.
Can't get out of your clothing if your hands are tied.
No I have just cleaned and ironed them.
The only time I might get tied up is if a couple of burglars invaded my home.
Work on your elegance,
and beauty will follow.
I love being put into bondage while I am dressed> My wife has fun too keeping me under her control
Shari, you have asked a question that I too have wondered about, but I am new here on this Forum and was not sure if I could ask without offending any one.
I for years have enjoyed bondage ,especially when dressed. unfortunately my wife does not enjoy it, or understand the feelings that I get when dressed and tied up. It is a special feeling the I have found no equal too. I enjoy tying up someone else also because I know what they are feeling and that in its self gives me pleasure.
I have just finished reading 50 shades of gray. [All three books] but that’s all I am going to admit too.
The only bondage I enjoy is a tight corset and a girdle.....
I enjoy dressing and bondage, but I don't normally combine the two very often (anymore at least). Bondage is purely a sexual thing, dressing is something much more personal and important than that to me
Bi-Gendered, Goth/Metal Fan, Atheist, Artist and British
what Karren Hutton said ...
You can't fly with the eagles if you sleep with the pigeons.
Gee, Never tried bondage while dressed. Sounds like it might be fun so I will put it on the bucket list.
And Karen, I agree, I do love the confining nature of a corset and girdle. I know that is fun.
Love
EllenJo
Somtimes the light's all shining on me, Other times I can barely see.
Lately it's occured to me.....What a long strange trip it has been.
Truckin by the Grateful Dead
I enjoy been in bondage no matter if I am dressed or not but I do enjoyed it more being dressed.
Yep we take it in turns, got lots of toys to play with lol
J
How do I feel about my SO. Chris de Burgh - Forevermore, says it all.
Sorry, i do not care for bondage or degradation
Same here. Old fashioned, I guess.Originally Posted by bridget thronton
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My wife and I do bondage in a very seductive way. Who ever is the "captured spy" is restrained but never securely. i.e., the hands may be wrapped to the headboard but not tied. Who ever is the captive gets to enjoy a very intimate time.
I never new how masculine I was until I tried to be a woman
Agree with all on the corset and girdle, but I have added several items which definitely do something to the psyche!!!!
I'm with Karren - corsets and shapewear for this girl, but I've met some I would love to lock up....
Jamie
If there were to be bondage while dressed, I'd be a Dominatrix.
I know enough to know I don't know enough.
Peace
Can I come round your place?
A panting Suzy getting all hot and bothered.
Haven't tried it yet but knowing Desiree, she'd probably get into it.
Since I'm an older virgin, all I have are occasional fantasies. Like Lady Cath, I've only considered the dominatrix role. Actually, I thought of myself in the guy role, binding my beautiful wife or GF and then inviting other men to rape her nonviolently, but degradingly. I shared that recently. Since it's a fantasy, I believe both the beautiful wife and the dominator and rapists are myself, and the fantasy gives me pleasure because I was conditioned to feel loved by my parents when I was obedient, and in this fantasy I'm obeying their wishes, which are that I suppress my feminine side and act out my masculinity.
When I think about it in this way, it seems that acting out an agreed script might be able to help liberate us. I mean liberate us from suppressing our femininity. Those who tie each other up loosely so the other can escape might do that, i.e. liberate themselves in their subconscious minds.
I've seen a lot of porn involving bondage. They can be quite degrading. But now such porn just suggests to me how strongly society, usually parents I think, has ingrained in men to suppress their femininity and in women their masculinity.
Has anyone noticed any psychological healing after engaging in bondage roleplay or the like?
By the way, I'll have to consider corsets and girdles next week when I go shopping.
T-shirt says: "Hi, I Crossdress!"
I will stick to a corset. Tighter the better.
Rader
My wife has been ting me up for years. the best part is when she ties mtankles and loops the rope over my feet and heels.
what myrdin said......
paula
Bondage and crossdressing are only erotic to me in the context of femdom. Being tied up does nothing for me in itself and I often CD just to feel "feminine" although I will admit there is a subtle eroticism involved there also. But my "kink" is emasculation. There are infinite ways that can be accomplished but if it involves being tied up and petticoated then all the better.
There was a discussion on another board about autogynephila (AGP) and one person offered the theory that AGP was the result of the fetishization of childhood emasculation trauma. Most vehemently disagreed with him including me. But I only disagreed that it was true for everybody. In my case, it is highly plausible. I could probably write the book on childhood emasculation trauma. So I find erotic emasculation/feminization strangely cathartic and healing. It's much more than just sex to me. My wife is a willing and enthusiastic partner in all of this but she gets something completely different out of it.
I might add, for the narrow minded lot, that erotic degradation is to real degradation what playing cowboys and Indians is to Custer's last stand.
In my younger day I used S&M as a way to get what I wanted, to dress. I used to tell my wife it was just part of the submissive role. I know that she knew better but it was more about me excepting that part of me.
"And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom" Anais Nin.
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