On this site I've read many, many thread about conflicted feelings in regards to CDing, unsupportive spouses, frustration with self-identity, bias and bigots, etc. So, I wanted to share with you a thread that goes in a completely positive direction in hope it's uplifting.
First, my situation: My wife knows, supports, and even encourages my CDing; I don't go out and don't want to; I'm am not gay, trans, bi, or anything like that (no offense to those that are, just stating where I am); only my wife knows and has known for years; and I prefer that the kids, friends, relatives not know. All that said, I love dressing and simply enjoy sharing experiences with my wife of more than 3 decades.
Now, on to the show: This whole week we've rented a secluded place away from home and are taking the entire week to dress and have fun -- to let Misty come out and play as we like to jokingly state. We have a closet full of clothes - dresses, skirts, gowns, blouses, leggings, capris, etc - as well as a table full of wigs (I think about 14 or so) and we are just having a blast dressing and trying on outfits.
Last night, and each night while here, we are dressing up in cocktail attire (think gowns and pumps with lots of jewelry bling) and enjoying candlelight dinner and romance. By day it's nail treatments with lots of color trials, manicures and pedicures, facials, hot tub time in matching bathing suits, cooking together while I'm dressed in more domestic attire (swing skirt, blouse, flats, yada-yada.) Even have snuggle time in our night wear by the fireplace.
Tonight I think we're planning a 40's theme with period background music and a bit of dressing to that era. Have an Ode to Sinatra night planned, and a contemporary clubbing theme evening coming up.
In all, we're just loving each other and each other's company. We've long since grown past the "what's it all mean" drama and are just enjoying being who we are and having fun with it. Maybe that gives hope to those who are wondering if a relationship can work with CDing as a part of the picture. In any event, I'm having a wonderful time with a most precious woman, and Misty is loving the play date