I know there is a female name thread, and this post will kind of touch on it, but I think this is a different slant on the question...so here it goes.
When we're born into the world, almost all of us don't get to pick our name. nicknames are a little different, because we have some preference on which one gets used, but in general there's not much of a choice.
When us males discover our female personas, I think it's natural to want to define and name that persona.
I am curious how many have struggled with the process. Personally, my name just came to me. That same name with the same spelling just came to my wife, at totally different times many years apart.
Since that name crossed my mind, I have always thought of myself by that name. When I hear Meghan used, I think of myself. I use Meghan as often as I use my male name when I think, if not more so.
I thought of this tonight because I am so unbelievably excited that I was able to get the M dropped from my screen name, so that my name is now just Meghan. I cannot begin to describe how much confidence and inspiration that gives me. It's a little thing, but it's a really big thing too.
I am very curious where others stand relative to their name. Do you feel it's fate or are you changing names when you change your nail polish? If you're not where you want to be, relative to your name, how important is fixing it? I am fascinated to learn where everyone is on this area, I haven't put much thought into it before today...
Meghan