I had written two letters to my GF, which I was planning to give to her during weekend, explaining how I feel about myself, her and generally speaking life. Ending of course to the fact, that I've always felt that there is a feminine side inside me, who also want's to express herself with clothes and make-up.
However I've been feeling so anxious the past few weeks about myself generally speaking that I hardly sleep, eat or do my work properly and today was the worst day ever, so I decided impulsively to give the letters now...like waiting a death sentence, let's just get it over with.
She didn't freakout, or at least didn't appear like that. She is a bit tired due to health problems and I was sorry to put her through this now. Her only regret was, that I didn't tell how I felt, when we met 10 years ago. She said to me that she doesn't love just what she sees outside, but that she's more in love what is inside and that wont change, no matter what I would do to myself in the outside and that my thoughts and who I really am, I cannot change no matter what.
Then she commented, that guess we need to go now and buy dresses and make-up for me. I told that I already have a bit of my own clothes and make-up. She told me to get the clothes from the basement and place them where clothes are suppose to be, in the drawer!
We proceed to discuss about the dressing, that do I want to do it in private or when she is around too and I told, that I would really like to wear what I want whenever I want. She was ok with that I guess, although I did ask her to think what I've told for a few days and if she suddenly is not ok with this whole thing, then we need to think this whole thing over.
I feel like a really heavy weight has dropped from my shoulders. I don't know if she will really accept me, when I will dress for the first time, but I'm quite confident, that we will at least remain friends, if we end splitting up. I'm trying to move slowly and not to push this other me too much to her. I also explained, that when I dress-up, it's not the woman I would like her to be, but that it's who I would want to be.
I want to thank you all. I mean the amount of good advices on this forum is amazing. I doubt that I would have ever told her, if it wasn't you all! I just want to give a big hug to you all!