Sounds like my story. My wife ife is completely uninterested and not accepting. I crave the time when her and my kids are not home so I can indulge in dressing. I'm sorry to say that nothing has changed her attitude. She doesn't understand it, doesn't want to talk about it and doesn't want to know about what I do. Shame on me for marrying in to it. I've always been honest about it.
No promises with what Roberta said. Definitely give her time, but one outcome will be no change in her attitude.