My boyfriend has said a few things in the past (mostly in a jokey way but last time a bit more seriously) about wanting to cross dress and I'm wondering if people think this is something a man would joke about if he didn't actually have a desire to do it? It would totally turn me on if he did want to do it (well the clothes at least not neccessarily hair and make up) but I don't want to bring up the topic seriously until I'm sure he's not joking in case he thinks I'm completely mad or gets offended... he is a pretty masculine guy in most ways but is definitely in touch with his feminine side..