From the discription of your two interactions, you did a better job than you give yourself credit. I see no mention of the fact that she recognized you on the second trip of being that tall woman.
From the discription of your two interactions, you did a better job than you give yourself credit. I see no mention of the fact that she recognized you on the second trip of being that tall woman.
If you thought you passed and felt comfortable - you enjoyed the experience. It's what you think and feel that count.
Hi,
If in dought then ask. I would ask the lady in what way she thinks would help you to be more presentable . or how she see's you . then youll have more of an idear that may help you.
Are you known around your Village, do people get to know you well enough to be friends,
Or in my terms im accepted seen all the time very well known so there is no ? as to can i pass or do i theres no need or will i . so it is a lot different for this kid, & does not matter,
any way just a few idears,
...noeleena...
I only go out once or twice a year, and i did this time on Holloween night, and was the only customer in the store. I don't want this town knowing about Alice. One neighbor lady knows, and is ok with it. With all the crises i am in right now, i don't think much about dressing.
Some causes of crossdressing you've probably never even considered: My TG biography at:http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...=1#post1490560
There's an addendum at post # 82 on that thread, too. It's about a ten minute read.
Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.
when you think about it, going out on Halloween is probably a give away in itself. Being the only person in a place simply draws greater attention to you. Try another night and a busier place. But don't go out with the goal of fooling anyone - go out to enjoy being yourself.