Yes a huge sexual thrill. Growing up as a teenager I was never into porn, just looking at ladies in pretty dresses and skirts was more than enough for me. Once I started dressing it was a a huge turn on and while it doesn't always end in an O, I still get incredibly horny when fully dressed.
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If you done spent hours of your life putting on too much makeup... Clothes that are too small for your fat butt and heels that are too high for you to walk in ..and you don't feeling sexy ..you did it wrong .. Try a other outfit .
90 % of all CDs get sexually aroused when dressed .... the other 10 % just lie about it
I started wanting to wear my sisters' clothes at a very young age, 4 or 5 years old. I remember wondering why I couldn't wear this sort of one piece jumper/shorts type thing they wore. I'm not sure I ever got to or when I actually put on that first pair of panties. I recall staying home alone sick from school in 3rd grade and spending the entire time trying on and wearing many of their skirts and dresses. I had done it before and knew enough to stuff something in the bra to look like breasts. It wasn't sexual as I didn't figure out masturbating until 5th grade but after that is was and still is arousing every time.
1. Sometimes, but I do stay dressed when I have the time and I really like to stay dressed after I've been with a man. Somehow makes me feel more girly to put my skirt back on afterwards.Originally Posted by kendra_gurl
2. That works sometimes when I know I can't dress and want to and I also will avoid the big O when I know a dressing opportunity is available later in the day.
It doesn't take much to arouse a male who just broke puberty. If something feels good for whatever reason and has some exterior association, it'll no doubt show up then. However, for some it often precedes that (as mentioned), and I've heard of others for whom it comes far later and is not associated. For many, that reason goes away pretty quickly.
Crossdressers are quite different people, especially if you read the various threads that show up here.
Some people are fetishists, some people are emulating a role to relax, some vastly prefer the comfort or style of women's clothes, some are "travelers" and enjoy visiting the different feelings that arise from doing this, some are opposite gender and relieving the stress of that, and some are amalgams of gender -- I suspect I fall into one of the last three, but at my age, one simply goes along with it. When I was around puberty I wanted to be a girl; however, there are other aspects of my personality that are definitely male, especially at work.
None of these things are harmful, so they're fine. I do suspect that not all of them are transgender. On the other hand, I'm perfectly happy to embrace anyone who wishes to view themselves as such. Really, I find everyone unique to be more interesting than those who adheres to some common model.
What you're describing is common with a set of people. However:
1. No. _If_ I was wearing women's clothes during at all, it's purely just because I was too lazy to change out. Partially, this is because I don't want an association to be made -- I used to be a bit paranoid about that. Usually, I wouldn't have been wearing anything, but if I was, I'd at most take a shower and then go back to wearing what I was, or if it was late at night, switch to a pajamas or a nightgown. Honestly, though, it used to be that I was careful to stop dressing an hour or more before, but now I just kind of feel like it doesn't matter, though I usually will. I will say that if someone accepts this aspect of my personality _that_ is arousing; if they will interact positively when I'm dressed, that's great, but again, I don't change out unless they ask (which isn't arousing). Historically, even in puberty, I wanted to keep wearing women's clothes if it happened, and even then, I didn't like that "the event" occurred. Of course, they weren't mine, so I couldn't keep wearing them.
2. Misread this, no, there's no correlation. Regardless of that, I always dress in the evening and night if I can. My original reply was that dressing preceded puberty, since I thought the question was asking if that event cemented it.
One trick about this is dopamines are definitely involved. It _is_ relaxing. Exactly why is complicated, which is why these threads draw so much interest.
I do, for example, see similar tendencies to my own in my nephew who is now around eight or nine (still believes in Santa
I think, there is nothing so stimulating as to put on a pretty bra and panty set, nylons, heels and a short little skirt...........then go out in public with it. Every time I have done that, I have crazy, insane "O's" at the end of the night.
In my case i always dressed for the " A".The "O" came later after I undressed.That was when I was 25 and younger.These days its neither although once in awhile I do feel slightly turned on by it.
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You are not alone. Crossdressing is nothing sexual to me, never been.
the reason i love to be dressed as a female, is the first i am always sexually aroused, i feel fem and i love the dressess , the colours and the choices we can make and it looks lovely too
I had on my step mothers panties, stockings, and pantie girdle. I would have been around 13 years old. The bedspread was a silky nylon material as well. I was just rolling around enjoying the silkiness of everything and before I knew it whooosh. At first I didn't understand what had happened but everything felt fine. I just kind of sat back and said who knew.....
I started CDing when I was very young, maybe 5 or 6? What I remember is I didn't just do it out of curiosity, I had already fantasized about crossdressing, and then snuck into my sister's room when no one was around and tried on her dresses. Shortly after, I was desperate to share what I had done with someone so I told one of my sisters about it and I also took some of my sisters clothes and put them in my drawers with my clothes. Then, after a day or so I felt really guilty, put the clothes back and told my sister to never ever tell anyone ever about what I had done.
All I know about this is that it was my first crossdressing experience and it pretty much set the pattern for all of my crossdressing from then on, which was that I would be driven to dress up to experience some kind of exhilaration (which I didn't realize at the time but now know was sexual stimulation), and then I would feel really guilty when it was over, knowing that it was something little boys weren't supposed to do. The thing is I was very happy to be a boy, I didn't want to be a girl at all, but dressing in girls clothes was exhilarating and addictive.
Well pretty much thats the way it went, and as much as the desire to crossdress has come and gone throughout my life I realize it'll always be there as a very strong part of my sexual identity (which as I've said it has absolutely nothing to do with my gender identity).
When I was young I was paranoid about being gay since I associated crossdressing with being gay, up until I was in my late teen or early twenties when I became sexually active with women, and I realized that's what made me happy. But I think the more experience I got with the female body, which I do believe is the most beautiful and erotic thing that has ever existed on this or any other planet, the more my CD fantasies evolved away from being about female clothing and behavior and more about the female body. And now I would say I am best described as autogynephilic, which is maybe why I don't CD anymore because it would never really fulfill my fantasies anyways. But the weird thing is that I really love having sex with a woman as a man, like just a normal heterosexual guy would so I think I have a bit of a split sexuality where I would love to be able to switch back in forth between being male and being with a woman, or being a woman (and doing pretty much anything), just depending on what mood I'm in.
I havent CD'd in about 6 years but I have to admit I would love to try it again sometime, but I don't know if I could ever find the outlet for it... maybe halloween is my best bet. But I'm always afraid, if I look a little too good walking in high heels I'll out myself, lol.
There have been times when I was really keen to dress and had been looking forward to it for a long time. When the opportunity finally came and I could dress in the way I had been thinking about for days beforehand, I often found that the result was very quick in coming - the big O. However, once that had happened, I would usually get undressed again. What a waste! I disciplined myself to resist the climactic part for much longer, thereby being able to enjoy the clothes for much longer. I also found that, on those rare occasions when I was free to dress for a longer period - all day, perhaps - I could allow the big O to happen but then remain dressed afterwards, allowing me to really enjoy the feel of the clothes as I went about my various tasks, and without feeling the same strong need to "do something about it".
Its not sexual for me, has been for a few years really. Although I can't change in front of a mirror as Candice, although my body is no different then when in male mode. When wearing a wig and make up makes me feel like I'm creeping on myself at times.
This happened to me too. I was wearing my mothers stockings. I was laying down on my bed and rubbing. After that, I was hooked. I still love stockings and ALWAYS get tremendously aroused wearing them.I had on my step mothers panties, stockings, and pantie girdle. I would have been around 13 years old. The bedspread was a silky nylon material as well. I was just rolling around enjoying the silkiness of everything and before I knew it whooosh. At first I didn't understand what had happened but everything felt fine. I just kind of sat back and said who knew.....
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Yup samehere was 11 or 12 wearing moms panties
From my earliest days of dressing, there has been a sexual component to it. I recall being very young - as in 3 or 4, maybe, and going in my mom's closet and holding a purse and feeling something that I would not recognize until much, much later as arousal. In my teens, when dressing began in semi-earnest, it was always connected with the O. That trend continued into my twenties, until I met my (now) ex. She supported my dressing, and encouraged it in our bedroom. So in a sense it was still connected with the O, but it liberated me from the idea that it was always going to be something I did on my own.
Also, my ex guided me into the realm of complete dressing, whereas before I was just a pantyhose & lipstick kind of person. Suddenly, there was a lot more effort involved in both preparation and clean up. That brings me to where I'm at now. There is still most always a sexual charge to my dressing these days, but it's gone beyond that as well. The end game is rarely the O. Now that I know that I can be involved with other people while dressed, those are the situations in which I will pursue that end. Alone, it's not as much of a thrill anymore just to go that route, and a bit messy to boot. If I am by myself, I'd usually rather get some good pictures, maybe have a fun new adventure outside my home. I'll save the pursuit of O for times when I am with others, in new & super charged situations.
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Very interesting thread. I really didn't start dressing until 6 years ago though I dabbled once or twice while younger. It is very sexual to me though I am not very orgasm driven. I tend to feel submissive and the need to please when I am dressed. I have often thought that as I became somewhat less virile as I aged it feed my need to please and be more submissive sexually which ties into dressing for me. I don't generally have sex when dressed but I do find it very arousing. There is euphoric about seeing Trish in the mirror for me which is like sex even if no sex is involved.
This is why so many of the CDers don't acknowledge sexual motives for dressing especially in the later years when the outcome isn't to specifically have an orgasm. But as you say, for some (many?) CDers, the euphoria/arousal/general-feeling-of-elevated-well-being is just as strong even when there is no sex (including auto-eroticism) involved.
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I'd nominate this for a Sticky thread but in this case it would be poor choice of words.
An interesting read.
I must say it has happened to me a time or two.
Angie
O yes I got turned on still do some times
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